Majority of us always wanted to hurry & grow up, we yearned to do stuff on our own, we wanted the adult stuff because it all looked like gold looking in from the outside.

But do you remember that saying ?

Everything that glitters isn’t gold, well here I am having to be crucially honest with myself because I stopped being Donnelle a long time ago.

A long time ago when I had to become an ADULT long before I even understood what a young adult was.

Sometimes we get so caught up in the adult lifestyle , the trends, relationships etc

So caught up in wanting to build a life for ourselves that our parents didn’t provide for us & that’s ok ,but we get so deep , too deep that we don’t realize it has changed us.

We start to adapt new hobbies and interests and make our minds believe we really enjoy these things when all we did was adapt to the environment and accepted the one fun thing close enough to the lifestyle.

My question is .. do you really love the things you do for fun? Is it really what you want to do?

I had a crazy reality check , I realized some of the things I say i really love now aren’t what I really love , I’ve just got too caught up in being an adult I forgot how much fun life suppose to be outside of the fun stuff that’s trending.

Where’s your reality check?