Growing up with Anabelle: Introduction

This is a story about a girl named Anabelle , she was young , brave and funny. Anabelle was always jovial, she was everyone’s friend in her neighborhood.

Anabelle grew up in a small village, her house was a tiny green cottage at the end of the road, she lived with her mother and two older brothers.

Annabelle loved to stay outside and chase butterflies and pick tiny flowers she found, she was such a daring sweetheart until one day Anabelle changed.

Anabelle became quiet and strange , this is how the story begins.

To be continued in chapter 1 …..

Spinning in a world of wander

I know I can’t be the only one who gets lost sometimes within their own head, it’s like getting lost in your own home.

There’s the crazy that’s going on around us and then there’s YOU sitting in the middle contemplating your next step. Do I have your imagination as yet? Picture this , people running for their lives, anger , rage , places burning to the ground, police sirens, outside is so smoky you can barely see , it’s dark outside and all you see is chaos.

Is the picture there now? Ok great . You’re just trying to see your next step, all you want is to head down the right path so you block everything out happening around you and you keep your eyes on the goal.

Let’s paint another picture, have you ever played football? If you haven’t , have you ever watched it Atleast just one time ? Or maybe any other sport, picture the sport you played, do you remember what it was like on the field?

Don’t you be so caught up in the game sometimes you don’t even see the spectators around you until the game is over ?, it’s like everything was a blur while you were in the game fighting for the win.

That’s me right now in this world, the world is just spinning in wander and chaos.

The governments don’t understand anything that’s happening therefore the decisions aren’t most people’s favorites , everyday on the news worldwide it’s these two words now COVID & VACCINE *laughs*

How can you forget ?? You can’t right, however , I’m just so focused on using this time while everyone else is being distracted by the madness I’m using it as a way to stay motivated & to work towards what i need to build. With or without a pandemic I still have to make it , the world doesn’t stop , the clock won’t stop ticking and my age won’t pause.

This is a mindset that takes a long time building , it’s comes with a lot of changes but my friends, some day I hope your mind becomes this strong to be in the middle of a merry go round without getting dizzy.

Don’t get thrown off the bull now 🙂

Take care 🙏🏽

Understanding Disrespect

Majority of us believe disrespect is only calling someone out of their name, abusing etc

Disrespect is simply lack of respect or courtesy, respect is simply a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.

Courtesy is the showing of politeness in one’s attitude and behavior toward others.

Therefore, we disrespect people without even realizing because of the definition we broke down and made ourselves believe.

Be careful with the way you speak to others, be sure to acknowledge other’s opinions and value their decisions.

Be careful how you say you’re being a friend, be sure to react as respectful as possible regardless of the situation.

I know this is hard we all have our ways and attitudes , it definitely takes time to change things we probably were doing almost our entire life but it is definitely possible.

Don’t look at it as you’re changing who you are , you are allowing your better version to come out. It’s called growth and maturity.

Understand disrespect 🙏🏽

Blockage

One too many times we become our own blockage in life. Most times we aren’t aware that we are so I’m here to open your eyes a tad bit.

Holding grudges is one of the biggest blockages people hold, you see you don’t forgive for people you forgive for yourself. Forgiveness is the big baggage that lifts off of your shoulders, it’s a step to moving on.

The blame game is another big blockage people hold, refusing to accept responsibility to a situation no matter how major or minor it can be. When you mature enough to acknowledge certain mistakes and own up to your responsibilities that’s another baggage lifted off of your shoulders.

Maliciousness, this is a blockage that some people deny. Being malicious is simply doing anything that can hurt anyone and knowing you can hurt that person yet you do it anyway. There’s no excuse for why, this blockage can make you disappear for a very long time or forever. This blockage can cause you to lose a lot of opportunities and tarnish your image.

Belittling others is a blockage a lot of people suffer from. We laugh at others, call them names, pretend , befriend and lots more and don’t realize we are putting a huge obstacle in our way.

Giving too much is a blockage the nicest and strongest people have in their life. It’s ok to be genuine but never allow yourself to be walked over by selfish people. Know when & who to give to. Don’t give away your blessings and push yourself to restart every single time. Look at it this way, if you’re storing goods and continue to give away to everyone that comes crying won’t you have to restock those same goods ? Aren’t those goods costly? Instead of stocking goods and using the extra funds for something else you have to start all over again. Do you understand now what the blockage is?

This was just an eye opener, a blockage can be ANYTHING or ANYONE, be sure to keep yourself aware and stop blocking yourself from a GREAT FUTURE .

Tribute to The Blood Warriors 🩸🎗

Surely shall we represent and remember our brothers & sisters whom fought a battle which chose them, some has survived, some are still fighting and some were sent above to be our angels.

It’s a disease for some reason barely anyone pays attention to.

It’s a disease that’s not respected and taken as seriously as it should be taken by many.

Don’t you think it’s serious?

Maybe you don’t believe it’s major?

Maybe you should do some research if you think any of the above

Dear Sickle Cells Anemia ,

You have chosen your warriors and the battle has begun.

You think you’ll win every round but I guarantee you’ve won none.

R.I.p to my dear Angel’s physical form but they’re still here walking with us in the Spirit & that I’m thankful for.

I am a warrior !

Solutions vs Complaints

We naturally complain when something doesn’t go the way we will like it to, we mumble, cry, go quiet, lose appetite, all of the negative emotions arise.

One thing we don’t stop to realise is, complaining never help us, it doesn’t help us feel better, it doesn’t help us find another solution.

My question now I’m so aware is why do we make complaining a part of our lives, let’s understand we will complain at some point within our lives as we are human however why make it such a habit or the first thing to do?

Solutions help us feel better, occupy our mind positively and definitely gives us another opportunity.

Finding a solution to a problem should be the first thing we do when something goes wrong, I like to believe everything happens for a reason.

Solutions should be the priority, a plan B should be there incase your Plan A goes wrong and even if you don’t have a Plan B , making one is your SOLUTION.

Solution is your way out

Complaint is your trap

Choose wisely.

No longer

Inspirational

One thing I always spoke into my life when I get started on a venture is that people will know me when I’m finished.

I always wanted to be inspirational, motivational and intriguing.

I always wanted to be remembered by my determination and POWER.

You don’t get two lives , you get one and multiple time to make things right as long as you’re alive.

No matter what you do, always know what GOAL you’ll like to accomplish even if you don’t get to accomplish every single one what’s that ONE GOAL that stands out?

If you are stuck by this question, here’s your homework to find your GOAL.

I am already living what I manifested and I’ll continue to manifest much greater things into my life.

Manifest everything you’ll love to have and focus on that but, you have to believe you’ll succeed or else you’re just pouring water into a glass with no bottom.

You don’t need to inspire the WORLD , just need to inspire ONE person and trust me you did a great deed.

Majority of us inspire people and we don’t know, keep up the great work, keep fighting you’re soon there.

Today’s vent to you 🙏🏽

Blessed

You know you are blessed when every obstacle placed in your way ends up being a stepping stone for you.

You know you are blessed when things don’t work out and then you realize you dodged a bullet.

You know you are blessed when opportunities you have been praying so hard for starts to unfold before you.

You know you are blessed because YOU ARE ALIVE & given another day to accomplish.

Let’s give thanks more , we don’t acknowledge how blessed we are enough

Here’s your reminder that you are blessed.

– Donnelle Deane

Take Care Of Yourself First

I took a long time to know this and then I took a while to acknowledge and work towards it.

I always tried to be that person there for everyone, I want to put everything down and help others. I was the type to say “I can handle it” like if others couldn’t without me.

I would put myself last in every situation even if I’m ill until I start to realise my soul is tired, I started to feel drained, depressed and just lost.

I had to swallow the hard pill and acknowledge that in order to keep going I can’t work off of a drained battery, I needed to take care of myself so I can help others.

I had to understand taking care of everyone isn’t my job, it’s ok to help but I couldn’t continuously put myself last unless I’ll always remain stuck, it was like I’m drowning myself to save someone from drowning.

I still struggle with it sometimes but I’m doing way better than before and I’m getting there.

Here’s your reminder for the day

You can’t pour from an empty cup, take care of yourself first.